Observation - Spouse complains about something not working right. I went out & spent about half an hour trying to fix it (car door). I attempt to explain how I tried to fix it, what worked & what didn't work...and spouse argues that I'm wrong. Offer to go out and SHOW what is wrong with the car & that makes me "obsessed." While I was out trying to fix it, he watched a comedy show on TV. I am portrayed silly and he is right. He will not hear me out.